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Head Elf
09-02-2008, 10:53 PM
I'm beginning to be a real drag here, so my apologies to everyone before I get to my point. My neice (10 years of age) died yesterday after a quad accident. I don't want to speak of her in the past tense but I know that is the correct way. She was such a lovely little girl, lively and so animated. I hate to sound like a cliche, but she was so smart for her age.
This has got to be one of the worse summers I have had in a long time. For those of you that have lost a child, my heart goes out to you. For those of you expecting a child, my heart goes out to you too! The miracle of a child is such an awesome thing to behold. As when a child sees their first snow fall, builds their first snowman. See's their first rainbow or holds a frog. Thw wonderment in their eyes and all their questions that we grow weary from. Take that moment to stop and look at the world in their eyes and enjoy it with them. Make memories, laugh with them, laugh at yourself......
ChristmasLovers
09-02-2008, 10:57 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Courtney
09-02-2008, 11:08 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, you have my deepest condolences.
kelly ann
09-03-2008, 02:33 AM
Sending deepest condolences.
trackrebel
09-03-2008, 02:58 AM
my condolences go out to You, too. I will pray for You and Your family.
irishsnow
09-03-2008, 05:01 AM
Very sorry to hear of your loss.
You and your family will be in my prayers
officepro4u
09-03-2008, 05:47 AM
You certainly don't have to apologize to us for being a "drag". You have suffered an incredible loss. I cannot even wrap my mind around your pain. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you today and the days to come. Lean on us for support!
judyyak
09-03-2008, 05:59 AM
Hello
I am so sorry for you. I lost my 8 yr old grandson 4 yrs ago,and your right. Enjoy EVERY moment you have with a child or any one for that matter as we never know how long we will be here.
I myself just had a close call with death 10 days in Icu and I sure appreciate life even more. judyyak
snowytree
09-03-2008, 06:59 AM
Im so sorry to hear about the loss of your niece. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
Ms_Speedy_Elf
09-03-2008, 07:08 AM
You and your family are in my prayer's. (((HUGS)))
Annette1990
09-03-2008, 07:26 AM
Headelf...I am so sorry to hear this. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
jolly elf
09-03-2008, 08:08 AM
I am very sorry to hear of your loss, thinking of you and your family.
MarthaK
09-03-2008, 08:47 AM
What a hard blow to take! The loss of your niece would not be easy no matter what, but I know that right after the loss of your dear pup you were already down and not ready for yet another punch.
We love you here and know that we are ready with hugs, hankies and strong shoulders.
Hugs and prayers for you and your family. If you have a picture of her you can share, I would love to see it.
Holiday
09-03-2008, 10:44 AM
Oh Head Elf, please accept my condolences. That is tough. There was a terrible accident here in March that took the lives of 4 - 2007 high school graduates. These types of accidents are so horrific & tragic! I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling. You have my sympathy. I will keep you & your family in my thoughts & prayers.
Undrtakr
09-03-2008, 11:02 AM
Im VERY sorry to hear of your loss. I know its hard. We are all here for you. *hugs*
Minta
09-03-2008, 11:29 AM
Sending {{{{{HUGS}}}}} and prayers your way!
Silverbelle
09-03-2008, 01:31 PM
So very sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you and yours.
MsChristmas
09-03-2008, 01:44 PM
Very sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayes. God Bless
Prayers and Thoughts to you and yours.
HolidayHoney
09-03-2008, 03:47 PM
My condoleces to you and your family.
Maureen
09-03-2008, 04:15 PM
I'm so sorry to hear your heartbreaking news. You're all in my thoughts - please take care
joyful
09-03-2008, 05:00 PM
(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))
Extending my deepest sympathy to you and the family.
Head Elf
09-03-2008, 08:37 PM
Thank you for your lovely thoughts and words, I will share them with my family members who are still in Texas. The services will be Friday or Saturday. I had a melt down at work today, not only for Cheyenne but for the loss of my mother 4 years ago. It didn't hit me this hard all those years ago. The last 4 years have been a roller coaster ride for me and it wasn't even an E-ticket ride. But I love my Christmas family more than I can put into words. New, old and the in betweens, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I thought I was pretty tough and could handle the loss like most people, but I found that I have a heart (like the Grinch) and it has been shattered in many pieces and healed only to break some more. I guess the Marines didn't make me a mindless machine afterall! I am human, figure the odds. Thank you again for all the support and prayers and kind words.
sgrover
09-03-2008, 08:40 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I can only imagine what it must be like. Take the time to grieve, and remember her as she'd want you to.
JOHNOR
09-04-2008, 02:27 PM
heartbreaking.
please take comfort in the fact that you will be with her again one day. you're in my thoughts.
billweesmom
09-04-2008, 05:21 PM
Prayers to you and your family at this most difficult time.
Karen
MerryChristmasLydio
09-13-2008, 03:04 PM
I'm beginning to be a real drag here, so my apologies to everyone before I get to my point. My neice (10 years of age) died yesterday after a quad accident. I don't want to speak of her in the past tense but I know that is the correct way. She was such a lovely little girl, lively and so animated. I hate to sound like a cliche, but she was so smart for her age.
This has got to be one of the worse summers I have had in a long time. For those of you that have lost a child, my heart goes out to you. For those of you expecting a child, my heart goes out to you too! The miracle of a child is such an awesome thing to behold. As when a child sees their first snow fall, builds their first snowman. See's their first rainbow or holds a frog. Thw wonderment in their eyes and all their questions that we grow weary from. Take that moment to stop and look at the world in their eyes and enjoy it with them. Make memories, laugh with them, laugh at yourself......
I understand completely. my mom has a baby who didn't live long after he was born either. But I know he's alright. He's probably sitting on Jesus' lap talking bout all sorts of things. Hugs to you and i hope all will be alright.
clarebear
09-13-2008, 03:31 PM
I'm deeply sorry to hear this sad news. Thinking of you all.
(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))
Faith4always
09-13-2008, 04:35 PM
My deepest sympathies.
Warm and gentle hugs.
sugarplum fairy
09-13-2008, 05:14 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that there isn't anything I can say right now to make you feel better, but know that I am praying for you and your family.
Christmas Snow Angel
09-21-2008, 09:50 PM
I am so sorry to hear this heartbreaking news. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
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